Quotes — Love (132 entries)

A smile…

A smile is a beacon of your love and hope for others. Let it shine.

« πλ | 18 Apr 2005 »

A 1000 different ways…

Take time today to pause every now and then, take a deep breath of that moment, and know that God loves you. He will whisper “I love you” in a 1000 different ways.

— Mark Woodward

« πλ | 2 Jan 2006 »

A Christian should always remember…

A Christian should always remember that the value of his good works is not based on their number and excellence, but on the love of God which prompts him to do these things.

— St. John of the Cross [via]

« πλ | 19 Jun 2004 »

A Little Pencil in the Hand of God…

I am a little pencil in the hand of a writing God who is sending a love letter to the world.

— Mother Teresa [via]

Unfortunately my lead keeps breaking on Him.

« πλ | 12 Jul 2004 »

A hug overcomes…

A hug overcomes all boundaries. It speaks words within the mind that cannot be spoken.

— Author unknown (thanks Libby)

« πλ | 20 Nov 2004 »

A life’s worth isn’t measured in…

A life’s worth, in the end, isn’t measured in hours or dollars. It’s measured by the amount of love exchanged along the way.

— Douglas C. Means (thanks Libby)

« πλ | 20 Jun 2005 »

A pure heart means…

A pure heart means a single heart, a heart in which only one desire lives: love.

— Peter Kreeft, The God Who Loves You

« πλ | 17 Mar 2006 »

A smile is the light in your window…

A smile is the light in your window that tells others that there is a caring, sharing person inside.

— Dennis Waitley (thanks Libby)

« πλ | 17 Nov 2004 »

Affected…

I cannot affect you without you affecting me.

— Author unknown

« πλ | 1 Jan 2004 »

Agape is the catalyst that…

Agape is the catalyst that makes value appear in anything.

— Peter Kreeft, The God Who Loves You

« πλ | 6 Mar 2006 »

As they are nothing…

Charity. To love human beings in so far as they are nothing. That is to love them as God does.

— Simone Weil

« πλ | 9 Sep 2006 »

Ascend to the dwelling places we desire…

In order to profit from this path [of prayer] and ascend to the dwelling places we desire, the important thing is not to think much but to love much; and so, do that which best stirs you to love.

— St. Teresa of Avila

« πλ | 22 Jul 2005 »

Baptism means derailment…

The word baptism means derailment. Christ baptizes Peter on the rock when he tells him: “Because you confessed your love for me, your life is no longer your own. Before you said this, you fastened your belt and you walked wherever you liked. Now, others will put a belt around you and take you where you would rather not go.” To submit to love is to be baptized, that is, to let one’s life be forever interrupted. To not let one’s life be interrupted is to say no to love

— Ronald Rolheiser

« πλ | 14 Sep 2006 »

Being deeply loved…

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.

— Lao Tzu

« πλ | 7 Jan 2005 »

But how can we love someone if we don’t like him?

But how can we love someone if we don’t like him? Easy—we do it to ourselves all the time. We don’t always have tender, comfortable feelings about ourselves; sometimes we feel foolish, stupid, asinine, or wicked. But we always love ourselves: we always seek our own good. Indeed, we feel dislike toward ourselves, we berate ourselves, precisely because we love ourselves; because we care about our good, we are impatient with our bad. (emphasis added)

— Peter Kreeft [via]

« πλ | 27 Jul 2005 »

Circle of Love

When you love, you complete a circle.
When you die, the circle remains.

— John Squadra

The connections we make here in this life, the people we love, the souls we touch, will remain when we get to heaven.

« πλ | 13 Dec 2004 »

Contradiction in terms…

Love contains a contradiction in terms.

Zentences

Everything belongs…

« πλ | 6 Sep 2005 »

Criticism is love turned sour…

In the spiritual domain, criticism is love turned sour… If criticism becomes a habit, it will destroy the moral energy of the life and paralyze the spiritual force… Whenever you are in a critical temper, it is impossible to enter into communion with God. Criticism makes you hard and vindictive and cruel, and leaves you with the flattering unction that you are a superior person. It is impossible to develop the characteristics of a saint and maintain a critical attitude.

— Oswald Chambers [via]

« πλ | 21 Jul 2004 »

Deal with the faults of others…

Deal with the faults of others as gently as with your own.

— Chinese proverb

« πλ | 26 Sep 2004 »

Do you not see…

Do you not see that you and I are as the branches of one tree? With your rejoicing comes my laughter, with your sadness start my tears. Love—could love be otherwise with you and me?

— Tsu Yeh

« πλ | 22 Feb 2005 »

Everything is problematic except…

Everything [in the world] is problematic except one thing: charity, love. Love alone is not a problem for him who lives it.

— Carlo Carretto, Letters from the Desert

« πλ | 1 Nov 2005 »

Faith and hope bring us through…

Faith and hope bring us through time but leave us at the doorstep of eternity. Only love goes with us inside.

— Peter Kreeft, The God Who Loves You

« πλ | 7 Mar 2006 »

For His own sake…

Only God is to be loved for His own sake. Everything else is to be loved for God’s sake.

— Peter Kreeft, The God Who Loves You

« πλ | 31 Mar 2006 »

Freedom…

Without that freedom to sin there is also no freedom to love.

— Peter Kreeft, The God Who Loves You

« πλ | 12 Mar 2006 »

God does not call us to do…

God does not call us to do extraordinary things. God calls us to do ordinary things with extraordinary love.

— Jean Vanier, founder of L’Arche

« πλ | 6 Oct 2004 »

God is so big…

God is so big He can cover the whole world with His love, and so small He can curl up inside your heart.

— June Masters Bacher (thanks Libby)

« πλ | 7 May 2005 »

God never forces himself…

God never forces himself upon us or works in us beyond what we are willing to allow him to do. If we do not grow in love, it is not because his love for us is limited, but because we set limits to what his love can do in us.

— Thomas Green, When the Well Runs Dry

« πλ | 13 Jun 2005 »

God’s command to us is not…

God’s command to us is not “make yourself perfect,” but “be made” perfect. The love, even for your enemies, which Jesus commands is not our work but his work in us. That makes all the difference.

— Thomas Green, When the Well Runs Dry

« πλ | 12 Jun 2005 »

God’s love is as objective as light…

God’s love is as objective as light. Because the sun in a sense is light, or the source of light rather than being lit, it really gives its light to the earth. And because the earth really receives light from the sun, it is really transformed every morning from darkness to light. Just as objectively, because God is love, God really gives love to us. And because we receive real life-changing love from God, we are really transformed from darkness to light.

— Peter Kreeft, The God Who Loves You

« πλ | 26 Feb 2006 »

Hate cannot drive out hate…

Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Hate multiplies hate, violence multiplies violence, and toughness multiplies toughness, in a descending spiral of destruction. The chain reaction of evil must be broken, or we shall be plunged into the dark abyss of annihilation.

— Martin Luther King Jr. [via]

« πλ | 17 May 2006 »

He who loves the most…

He who loves the most is always the weakest. He who loves the least is always the strongest.

— Author unknown

« πλ | 24 Feb 2006 »

His school of love…

You see, God just will not let us flunk out of His school of love. He insists on remedial lessons until we get it right. For this whole world is a school set up by Love Himself to teach us to love.

— Peter Kreeft, The God Who Loves You

« πλ | 13 Mar 2006 »

How can you see Christ in people?

“How can you see Christ in people?” And we only say: It is an act of faith, constantly repeated. It is an act of love, resulting from an act of faith. It is an act of hope, that we can awaken these same acts in their hearts, too, with the help of God…

— Dorothy Day, The Mystery of the Poor [via]

« πλ | 30 May 2006 »

Human love is sanctified not in…

A short-lived fascination with another person may be exciting—I think we’ve all seen people aglow, in a state of being “in love with love”—but such an attraction is not sustainable over the long run. Paradoxically, human love is sanctified not in the height of attraction and enthusiasm, but in the everyday struggles of living with another person. It is not in romance but in routine that the possibilities for transformation are made manifest. And that requires commitment.

— Kathleen Norris, “The Quotidian Mysteries” [via]

« πλ | 25 May 2006 »

I cried not because…

I cried, not because I was hurt but because he was. You *feel* like that when you love someone.

— Christine Castro [via]

« πλ | 16 Oct 2006 »

I would sooner have you…

I love you, and because I love you, I would sooner have you hate me for telling you the truth than adore me for telling you lies.

— Pietro Aretino [via]

« πλ | 2 Jun 2006 »

If I love until it hurts…

I have found the paradox that if I love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, but only more love.

— Mother Teresa

« πλ | 26 Apr 2006 »

If a unity of faith is not possible…

Even if a unity of faith is not possible, a unity of love is.

— Hans Urs von Balthasar

« πλ | 19 Apr 2005 »

If it finds you worthy…

And think not, you can direct the course of love; for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.

— Khalil Gibran

« πλ | 30 Apr 2006 »

If it were not for the Cross…

I could never myself believe in God, if it were not for the cross. The only God I believe in is the one Nietzsche ridiculed as “God on the Cross.” In the real world of pain, how could one worship a God who was immune to it? I have entered many Buddhist temples and stood respectfully before the statue of Buddha, his legs crossed, arms folded, eyes closed, the ghost of a smile playing round his mouth, a remote look on his face, detached from the agonies of the world. But each time after a while I have had to turn away. And in imagination I have turned instead to that lonely, twisted, tortured figure on the cross, nails through hands and feet, back lacerated, limbs wrenched, brow bleeding from thorn-pricks, mouth dry and intolerably thirsty, plunged in God-forsaken darkness. That is the God for me! He laid aside his immunity to pain. He entered our world of flesh and blood, tears and death. He suffered for us.

— John Stott

« πλ | 25 Mar 2005 »

If we will not learn to eat…

If we will not learn to eat the only fruit the universe can grow—the only fruit any possible universe can grow—we must starve eternally.

— C.S. Lewis

« πλ | 19 Jan 2006 »

If you judge people…

If you judge people, you have no time to love them.

— Mother Teresa [via]

« πλ | 5 Aug 2004 »

Indifference to love or hate is…

Indifference to love or hate is sitting on the fence between the two, refusing to engage either one of them. Indifference, if it had its own way, would prefer to step away from the whole struggle between love and hate, to walk away from the only real game in the world and wallow in its own mediocrity.

— Mark Woodward

« πλ | 26 Nov 2004 »

It is by the path of love…

It is by the path of love, which is charity, that God draws near to humans, and humans to God. But where charity is not found, God cannot dwell. If then, we possess charity, we possess God, for “God is charity.”

— St. Albert the Great, on 1 John 4:8

« πλ | 24 May 2005 »

It is not your job to seek for love…

It is not your job to seek for love. It IS your job to seek within yourself all the barriers against its coming.

Marianne Williamson [via]

« πλ | 9 Apr 2005 »

It is our part to seek…

It is our part to seek,
His to grant what we ask;
ours to make a beginning,
His to bring it to completion;
ours to offer what we can,
His to finish what we cannot.

— St. Jerome [via]

« πλ | 20 Mar 2005 »

Kindness cannot tolerate…

Kindness—mere kindness—cannot tolerate suffering. Love can.

— Peter Kreeft, Making Sense Out of Suffering

« πλ | 21 Jan 2006 »

Know Nothing of Calvary Love…

If I myself dominate myself, if my thoughts revolve round myself, if I am so occupied with myself I rarely have “a heart at leisure from itself,” then I know nothing of Calvary love.

— Amy Carmichael

« πλ | 17 Apr 2004 »

Let God love you through others…

Let God love you through others, and let God love others through you.

— D.M. Street

« πλ | 29 Oct 2004 »

Letting our heart break we discover…

It is only through letting our heart break that we discover something unexpected: the heart cannot actually break, it can only break open. When we feel both our love for this world and the pain of this world—together, at the same time—the heart breaks out of its shell. To live with an open heart is to experience life full-strength.

— John Welwood

« πλ | 6 Dec 2004 »

Life without love…

Life without love is a shadow of things that might be.

— Author unknown

« πλ | 14 Feb 2005 »

Life without love…

Life without love is like a tree without blossom and fruit.

— Kahlil Gibran

« πλ | 15 Oct 2005 »

Liquid properties…

Love has liquid properties.

Zentences

« πλ | 2 Sep 2005 »

Litmus test of love…

This is perhaps the greatest moral challenge Jesus left us: We all do pretty well in love when the persons we are loving are warm and gracious, but can we be gracious and mellow in the face of bitterness, jealousy, hatred, withdrawal? That’s the litmus test of love.

— Ronald Rolheiser

« πλ | 17 Jun 2006 »

Litmus test of love…

This is perhaps the greatest moral challenge Jesus left us: We all do pretty well in love when the persons we are loving are warm and gracious, but can we be gracious and mellow in the face of bitterness, jealousy, hatred, withdrawal? That’s the litmus test of love.

— Ronald Rolheiser

« πλ | 17 Jun 2006 »

Love and Revelation…

To love someone is not first of all to do things for them, but to reveal to them their beauty and value, to say to them through our attitude: “You are beautiful. You are important. I trust you. You can trust yourself.” We all know well that we can do things for others and in the process crush them, making them feel that they are incapable of doing things by themselves. To love someone is to reveal to them their capacities for life, the light that is shining in them.

— Jean Vanier, founder of l’Arche

« πλ | 10 May 2004 »

Love and do…

Love and do as you will.

— St. Augustine

Because you will be following God’s will if it is true, real love.

« πλ | 2 Nov 2005 »

Love anything and your heart will…

To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will certainly be wrung, possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping your heart, you must give your heart to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it up carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries, avoid all personal entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket of your selfishness. But in that casket—safe, dark, motionless, airless—it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.

— C.S. Lewis [via]

« πλ | 27 Apr 2005 »

Love can…

Love can wait to give;
lust can’t wait to get.

— Author unknown

« πλ | 9 Oct 2005 »

Love cannot bloom…

Love cannot bloom in “yesterday”.

Zentences

« πλ | 28 Aug 2005 »

Love completely…

At sunrise everything is luminous, but not clear. It is often the same with those we live with and love and should know: they elude us. Yet you can love completely without complete understanding.

— Norman Maclean, A River Runs Through It

« πλ | 19 Aug 2004 »

Love does not consist…

Love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking together in the same direction.

— Antoine de Saint-Exupery

« πλ | 8 Jan 2005 »

Love is a word…

Love is a word; what matters is the connection that word implies.

— Rama-Kandra in The Matrix Revolutions

« πλ | 25 Jun 2006 »

Love is an orientation…

Love is an orientation and not a state of the soul. Anyone who does not know this will fall into despair at the first onset of affliction.

— Simone Weil

« πλ | 10 Dec 2004 »

Love is faith’s flower…

Love is faith’s flower, hope is its stem. Grace comes into us by faith, like water through the roots of a tree. It rises in us by hope, like sap rising through the trunk of a tree. And it matures in us by [love] as fruit matures on a tree’s branches, fruit for the neighbor’s eating.

— Peter Kreeft, The God Who Loves You

« πλ | 3 Mar 2006 »

Love is like a fishhook…

Now love is like a fishhook. A fisher cannot catch a fish unless the fish first picks up the hook. If the fish swallows the hook, no matter how it may squirm and turn, the fisher is certain of the fish. Love is the same way. Whoever is captured by love takes up this hook in such a fashion that foot and hand, mouth and eyes, heart and all that is in that person must always belong to God.

Therefore, look only for this fishhook, and you will be happily caught. The more you are caught, the more you will be liberated.

— Meister Eckhart [via]

« πλ | 24 Nov 2004 »

Love is not measured…

The Wizard said to the Tin Man, “Remember my friend, love is not measured by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others.”

— from The Wizard of Oz (thanks Berta)

« πλ | 14 Feb 2003 »

Love is that flame…

Love is that flame that once kindled burns everything, and only the mystery and the journey remain.

— Rumi

« πλ | 4 Dec 2004 »

Love is the Law of Life

All love is expansion, all selfishness is contraction. Love is therefore the only law of life. He who loves lives; he who is selfish is dying. Therefore, love for love’s sake, because it is the law of life, just as you breathe to live.

— Swami Vivekananda [via]

« πλ | 23 Nov 2004 »

Love is the true means…

Love is the true means by which the world is enjoyed: our love to others, and others love to us.

— Thomas Traherne

« πλ | 23 Jan 2005 »

Love is…

Love is the most dangerous thing in the world.

— Author unknown

“The ultimate risk”, says Peter Kreeft

« πλ | 31 Jan 2006 »

Love life more than…

Love life more than the meaning of life, love life in spite of logic.

— Ivan Karamazov, The Brothers Karamazov

« πλ | 15 Jan 2006 »

Love takes off masks…

Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.

— James Baldwin (thanks Libby)

« πλ | 10 Apr 2005 »

Love whispers…

Love whispers often wordlessly.

Zentences

« πλ | 30 Aug 2005 »

Lovemaking…

One day, a philosopher asked, “What is the purpose of creation?” “Lovemaking,” said the Master. Later, to his disciples, he said, “Before creation, love was. After creation, love was made. When love is consummated, creation will cease to be, and love will be forever.”

— Anthony de Mello, Awakenings [via]

« πλ | 4 Nov 2006 »

May God break my heart…

May God break my heart so completely that the whole world falls in.

— Mother Teresa

« πλ | 12 Aug 2005 »

My last word…

Let this be my last word, that I trust in your love.

— Rabindranath Tagore

« πλ | 1 Dec 2006 »

No effective rational answer to…

There is no effective rational answer to the challenge: “But give me a reason why I should love someone who does not deserve it.” Love is the highest thing. There can be no higher reason to justify it.

— Peter Kreeft, The God Who Loves You

« πλ | 4 Mar 2006 »

No such thing as a small act of kindness…

Remember there’s no such thing as a small act of kindness. Every act creates a ripple with no logical end.

— Scott Adams (thanks Libby)

« πλ | 28 Nov 2004 »

Once our hearts get broken…

Once our hearts get broken, they never fully heal. They always ache. But perhaps a broken heart is a more loving instrument. Perhaps only after our hearts have cracked wide open, have finally and totally unclenched, can we truly know love without boundaries.

— Fred Epstein

« πλ | 22 Jan 2005 »

Only by love…

Love, I thought, is stronger than death or the fear of death. Only by it, by love, life holds together and advances.

— Ivan Turgenev

« πλ | 20 Oct 2005 »

Prayer and love are learned…

Prayer and love are learned in the hour when prayer becomes impossible and your heart has turned to stone.

— Thomas Merton

« πλ | 2 Dec 2004 »

Prayer is an act of love…

Prayer is an act of love, to God, from God, through God. Prayer is an act of love with those for whom we pray.

« πλ | 24 Feb 2005 »

Prepare to die by…

We prepare to die by pushing ourselves to love less narrowly. In that sense, readying ourselves for death is really an ever-widening entry into life.

— Ronald Rolheiser, “Life’s Key Question”

« πλ | 26 Jul 2006 »

Shortest distance between friends…

A hug is the shortest distance between friends.

— Author unknown (thanks Libby)

« πλ | 19 Nov 2004 »

So when you sense a change…

So when you sense a change,
Nothing feels the same,
All your dreams are strange,
Love comes walkin’ in.

— Van Halen, “Love Walks In”

« πλ | 30 Nov 2004 »

Some madness in love…

True, we love life, not because we are used to living, but because we are used to loving. There is always some madness in love, but there is also always some reason in madness.

— Friedrich Nietzsche

« πλ | 12 Oct 2005 »

Something of which we are a part…

To many moderns, [love] is something that is only a part of us rather than something of which we are a part.

— Peter Kreeft, The God Who Loves You

« πλ | 28 Feb 2006 »

That your enemies…

That your enemies have been created is God’s doing; that they hate you and wish to ruin you is their own doing. What should you say about them in your mind? “Lord be merciful to them, forgive them their sins, put the fear of God in them, change them!” You are loving in them not what they are, but what you would have them to become.

— St. Augustine [via]

« πλ | 8 Nov 2006 »

The Christmas heart is a giving heart…

Let us remember that the Christmas heart is a giving heart, a wide open heart that thinks of others first. The birth of the baby Jesus stands as the most significant event in all history, because it has meant the pouring into a sick world of the healing medicine of love which has transformed all manner of hearts for almost two thousand years… Underneath all the bulging bundles is this beating Christmas heart.

— George Mathhew Adams

« πλ | 24 Dec 2005 »

The beginning of love is…

The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.

— Thomas Merton

« πλ | 3 Oct 2006 »

The binding force…

Love is the binding force on every level of existence.

— Peter Kreeft, The God Who Loves You

« πλ | 1 Mar 2006 »

The bread of life…

In each of our lives, Jesus comes as the bread of life—to be eaten, to be consumed by us. This is how he loves us. Then Jesus comes in our life as the hungry one, the other, hoping to be fed with the bread of our life, our hearts by loving, and our hands by serving. In loving and serving, we prove that we have been created in the likeness of God, for God is love and when we love we are like God. This is what Jesus meant when he said, “Be perfect as your Father in heaven is perfect.”

— Mother Teresa [via]

« πλ | 9 Oct 2006 »

The discovery of ourselves in others…

Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition.

— Alexander Smith

And that Love is God…

« πλ | 26 Jun 2006 »

The first duty of love…

The first duty of love is to listen.

— Paul Tillich [via]

« πλ | 14 Feb 2006 »

The greatest weakness…

The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others how much they love them while they’re still alive.

— O.A. Battista

« πλ | 9 Jan 2005 »

The hammers of life beating on our hearts…

Henceforth, when we feel the hammers of life beating on our heads or on our hearts, we can know—we must know—that he is here with us, taking our blows. Every tear we shed becomes his tear. He may not yet wipe them away, but he makes them his. Would we rather have our own dry eyes, or his tear-filled ones? He came. He is here. That is the salient fact. If he does not heal all our broken bones and loves and lives now, he comes into them and is broken, like bread, and we are nourished. And he shows us that we can henceforth use our very brokenness as nourishment for those we love. Since we are his body, we too are the bread that is broken for others. Our very failures help heal other lives; our very tears help wipe away tears; our being hated helps those we love. When those we love hang up on us, he keeps the lines open.

— Peter Kreeft, from “Shared Hells”

« πλ | 30 Mar 2005 »

The heart has its reasons…

The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing.

— Blaise Pascal

« πλ | 12 Nov 2005 »

The love you give and receive…

Dare to love and to be a real friend. The love you give and receive is a reality that will lead you closer and closer to God as well as those whom God has given you to love.

— Henri Nouwen (thanks Libby)

« πλ | 28 Oct 2004 »

The more we realize we are loved…

The more we realize we are loved, the more ashamed we are not to love back. The more we sin as a violation of love, not just of law, the more powerful a motive we will have to overcome it. For sin is attractive to us (otherwise we would never be attracted to it) and can be cast out only by something more attractive.

— Peter Kreeft, The God Who Loves You

« πλ | 7 Apr 2006 »

The path of love…

It is by the path of love, which is charity, that God draws near to man, and man to God. But where charity is not found, God cannot dwell. If, then, we possess charity, we possess God, for ‘God is Charity’ (1 Jn 4:8).

— St. Albert the Great [via]

« πλ | 12 Jan 2004 »

The plant of our new life…

Faith is the root, the necessary beginning. Hope is the stem, the energy that makes the plant grow. Love is the fruit, the flower, the visible product, the bottom line. The plant of our new life in Christ is one; the life of God comes into us by faith, through us by hope, and out of us by the works of love.

— Peter Kreeft, Fundamentals of the Faith [via]

« πλ | 20 Sep 2006 »

The proof of love is…

The proof of love is in the works. Where love exists, it works great things. But when it ceases to act, it ceases to exist.

— St. Gregory the Great [via]

« πλ | 23 Feb 2006 »

The worst of faces…

The worst of faces still is human.

— Johann Kaspar Lavater

« πλ | 18 Sep 2004 »

The wrath of God…

The love of God is no human projection, but the wrath of God is. In fact, what we call the wrath of God is really the love of God experienced by a fool.

— Peter Kreeft, Making Sense Out of Suffering

« πλ | 18 Jan 2006 »

Three most difficult things for a human being…

The three most difficult things for a human being are not physical feats or intellectual achievements. They are, first, returning love for hate; second, including the excluded; third, admitting that you are wrong.

— Anthony de Mello, Awareness

« πλ | 2 Oct 2003 »

Through your embrace…

Through your embrace you speak a thousand words, without ever saying one.

— Author unknown (thanks Libby)

« πλ | 21 Nov 2004 »

To feel the sun from both sides…

To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.

— David Viscott (thanks Libby)

« πλ | 5 Aug 2005 »

To give light…

What is to give light must endure burning.

— Viktor Frankl

« πλ | 25 Sep 2006 »

To love at all is to be vulnerable…

To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will certainly be wrung, possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping your heart , you must give your heart to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it up carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries, avoid all personal entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket of your selfishness. But in that casket—safe, dark, motionless, airless—it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.

— C.S. Lewis [via]

« πλ | 16 Apr 2005 »

To love means to open ourselves to…

To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive—to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before.

— Rollo May

« πλ | 22 Aug 2004 »

To love someone is to say…

Gabriel Marcel once said: “To love someone is to say, you at least will never die.” That might sound like romantic wishful thinking, but in Christian faith we believe that this is deep insight, an article of faith, a truth of the incarnation. If we take the incarnation seriously, then to love someone is to say to that person: “You will never die because, in this life and the next, you will never be separated from community of life, God’s family, because in accepting my love you are touching the body of Christ just as really as did anyone who touched the historical Jesus. You will never die and you will never go to hell because you are bound to Christ.”

— Ronald Rolheiser

« πλ | 13 May 2005 »

To realize that every individual is…

Scripture starts with the particular and then universalizes it. You are called to love your concrete individual neighbor and then to realize that every individual is your neighbor. The point is not to destroy concrete neighborhood in a fit of universalism but to expand the local neighborhood and embrace the universal neighborhood.

— Peter Kreeft, The God Who Loves You

« πλ | 20 Mar 2006 »

To show them their beauty…

To love someone is to show them their beauty, their worth, and their importance.

— Jean Vanier

« πλ | 24 Apr 2005 »

True love is willing to suffer…

True love, unlike popular sentimental substitutes, is willing to suffer. Love is not “luv.” Love is the cross. Our problem at first, the sheer problem of suffering, was a cross without Christ. We must never fall into the opposite and equal trap of a Christ without a cross.

— Peter Kreeft, Making Sense Out of Suffering

« πλ | 25 Jan 2006 »

True love loves you…

True love loves you right where you are, and also loves you enough not to leave you stuck there.

Alicia Huntley [via]

« πλ | 24 Oct 2005 »

Trust is the middle term…

The key to faith is love. We believe only if we love. Trust is the middle term; only if we love, do we trust; and only if we trust, do we believe.

— Peter Kreeft, The God Who Loves You

« πλ | 2 Mar 2006 »

Two tragedies…

John Powell, in his book, “Unconditional Love”, tells the story of a young student who was dying of cancer. In the final stages of his illness, he came to see Powell and said something to this effect: “Father, you once told us something in class that has made it easier for me to die young. You said: ‘There are only two potential tragedies in life, and dying young isn’t one of them. These are the two tragedies: If you go through life and don’t love and if you go through life and you don’t tell those whom you love that you love them.’”

— Ronald Rolheiser, “Life’s Key Question”

« πλ | 25 Jul 2006 »

Visible ink…

Love is written in visible ink.

Zentences

« πλ | 31 Aug 2005 »

We may give…

We may give without loving, but we cannot love without giving.

— Author unknown

Reminds me of this quote.

« πλ | 9 Nov 2003 »

We shall be judged by love…

In the evening of our life, we shall be judged by love, namely, by the sincerity of our love for God, for our neighbor, for our soul.

— St. John of the Cross

« πλ | 29 Jul 2004 »

We take ourselves as…

We take ourselves as we are, and we take our brother as he is. Together with him we take a stand for love. And all the evidence to the contrary not withstanding: love is all that matters. It is only love that makes of Desolation Row a Glory Road. And Love is already there, because that is where He lives.

— Fr. Matthew Kelty, from “Desolation Row”

« πλ | 17 Jul 2005 »

We who run in the way of Love…

We who run in the way of Love must never torment ourselves about anything. If I did not suffer minute by minute, it would be impossible for me to be patient; but I see only the present moment, I forget the past, and take good care not to anticipate the future. If we grow disheartened, if sometimes we despair, it is because we have been dwelling on the past or the future.

— St. Thérèse [via]

« πλ | 27 Dec 2004 »

What I feel like is out of my hands…

What I feel like is out of my hands, and I can’t be responsible for that; what I choose is where morality starts, and this is the true testing ground of good and bad.

— Fr. Jim Tucker, from “Love: Active and Passive”

« πλ | 23 Oct 2004 »

What we do…

What we do (or don’t do) doesn’t tell us how much God is going to love us, it tells us how much we love Him.

Fr. Jim Tucker

« πλ | 15 Jan 2005 »

When I love I can no longer do…

Love is the fulfillment of the law and should be everyone’s rule of life; in the end it’s the solution to every problem, the motive for all good. “Love and do as you will.” This is the crux. When I love I can no longer do as I will.

— Carlo Carretto, Letters from the Desert

« πλ | 3 Nov 2005 »

When we can see the image of God…

When we can see the image of God where we don’t want to see the image of God, then we see with eyes not our own.

— Richard Rohr

« πλ | 8 May 2005 »

Whole prayer is…

Whole prayer is nothing but love.

— St. Augustine

« πλ | 1 Mar 2005 »

Windstorms of life…

To love means never to be afraid of the windstorms of life: should you shield the canyons from the windstorms you would never see the true beauty of their carvings.

— Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

« πλ | 26 Jan 2005 »

Wraith is how His love appears…

God is love. Wraith is how His love appears to us when we sin or rebel or run away from Him. The very light that is meant to help us appears to us as our enemy when we seek the darkness.

— Peter Kreeft, The God Who Loves You

« πλ | 15 Mar 2006 »

Writing between the lines…

Love appears in writing between the lines.

Zentences

« πλ | 4 Sep 2005 »

Your persistent longing is…

Your persistent longing is your persistent voice. But when love grows cold, the heart grows silent. Burning love is the outcry of the heart! If you are filled with longing all the time, you will keep crying out, and if your love perseveres, your cry will be heard without fail.

— St. Augustine

« πλ | 10 May 2005 »