A smile…
A smile is a beacon of your love and hope for others. Let it shine.
« πλ | 18 Apr 2005 »
Take time today to pause every now and then, take a deep breath of that moment, and know that God loves you. He will whisper “I love you” in a 1000 different ways.
« πλ | 2 Jan 2006 »
A Christian should always remember that the value of his good works is not based on their number and excellence, but on the love of God which prompts him to do these things.
« πλ | 19 Jun 2004 »
I am a little pencil in the hand of a writing God who is sending a love letter to the world.
Unfortunately my lead keeps breaking on Him.
« πλ | 12 Jul 2004 »
A hug overcomes all boundaries. It speaks words within the mind that cannot be spoken.
« πλ | 20 Nov 2004 »
A life’s worth, in the end, isn’t measured in hours or dollars. It’s measured by the amount of love exchanged along the way.
« πλ | 20 Jun 2005 »
A pure heart means a single heart, a heart in which only one desire lives: love.
« πλ | 17 Mar 2006 »
A smile is the light in your window that tells others that there is a caring, sharing person inside.
« πλ | 17 Nov 2004 »
Agape is the catalyst that makes value appear in anything.
« πλ | 6 Mar 2006 »
Charity. To love human beings in so far as they are nothing. That is to love them as God does.
« πλ | 9 Sep 2006 »
In order to profit from this path [of prayer] and ascend to the dwelling places we desire, the important thing is not to think much but to love much; and so, do that which best stirs you to love.
« πλ | 22 Jul 2005 »
The word baptism means derailment. Christ baptizes Peter on the rock when he tells him: “Because you confessed your love for me, your life is no longer your own. Before you said this, you fastened your belt and you walked wherever you liked. Now, others will put a belt around you and take you where you would rather not go.” To submit to love is to be baptized, that is, to let one’s life be forever interrupted. To not let one’s life be interrupted is to say no to love
« πλ | 14 Sep 2006 »
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
« πλ | 7 Jan 2005 »
But how can we love someone if we don’t like him? Easy—we do it to ourselves all the time. We don’t always have tender, comfortable feelings about ourselves; sometimes we feel foolish, stupid, asinine, or wicked. But we always love ourselves: we always seek our own good. Indeed, we feel dislike toward ourselves, we berate ourselves, precisely because we love ourselves; because we care about our good, we are impatient with our bad. (emphasis added)
« πλ | 27 Jul 2005 »
When you love, you complete a circle.
When you die, the circle remains.
The connections we make here in this life, the people we love, the souls we touch, will remain when we get to heaven.
« πλ | 13 Dec 2004 »
Love contains a contradiction in terms.
Everything belongs…
« πλ | 6 Sep 2005 »
In the spiritual domain, criticism is love turned sour… If criticism becomes a habit, it will destroy the moral energy of the life and paralyze the spiritual force… Whenever you are in a critical temper, it is impossible to enter into communion with God. Criticism makes you hard and vindictive and cruel, and leaves you with the flattering unction that you are a superior person. It is impossible to develop the characteristics of a saint and maintain a critical attitude.
« πλ | 21 Jul 2004 »
Deal with the faults of others as gently as with your own.
« πλ | 26 Sep 2004 »
Do you not see that you and I are as the branches of one tree? With your rejoicing comes my laughter, with your sadness start my tears. Love—could love be otherwise with you and me?
« πλ | 22 Feb 2005 »
Everything [in the world] is problematic except one thing: charity, love. Love alone is not a problem for him who lives it.
« πλ | 1 Nov 2005 »
Faith and hope bring us through time but leave us at the doorstep of eternity. Only love goes with us inside.
« πλ | 7 Mar 2006 »
Only God is to be loved for His own sake. Everything else is to be loved for God’s sake.
« πλ | 31 Mar 2006 »
God does not call us to do extraordinary things. God calls us to do ordinary things with extraordinary love.
« πλ | 6 Oct 2004 »
God is so big He can cover the whole world with His love, and so small He can curl up inside your heart.
« πλ | 7 May 2005 »
God never forces himself upon us or works in us beyond what we are willing to allow him to do. If we do not grow in love, it is not because his love for us is limited, but because we set limits to what his love can do in us.
« πλ | 13 Jun 2005 »
God’s command to us is not “make yourself perfect,” but “be made” perfect. The love, even for your enemies, which Jesus commands is not our work but his work in us. That makes all the difference.
« πλ | 12 Jun 2005 »
God’s love is as objective as light. Because the sun in a sense is light, or the source of light rather than being lit, it really gives its light to the earth. And because the earth really receives light from the sun, it is really transformed every morning from darkness to light. Just as objectively, because God is love, God really gives love to us. And because we receive real life-changing love from God, we are really transformed from darkness to light.
« πλ | 26 Feb 2006 »
Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Hate multiplies hate, violence multiplies violence, and toughness multiplies toughness, in a descending spiral of destruction. The chain reaction of evil must be broken, or we shall be plunged into the dark abyss of annihilation.
« πλ | 17 May 2006 »
He who loves the most is always the weakest. He who loves the least is always the strongest.
« πλ | 24 Feb 2006 »
You see, God just will not let us flunk out of His school of love. He insists on remedial lessons until we get it right. For this whole world is a school set up by Love Himself to teach us to love.
« πλ | 13 Mar 2006 »
“How can you see Christ in people?” And we only say: It is an act of faith, constantly repeated. It is an act of love, resulting from an act of faith. It is an act of hope, that we can awaken these same acts in their hearts, too, with the help of God…
« πλ | 30 May 2006 »
A short-lived fascination with another person may be exciting—I think we’ve all seen people aglow, in a state of being “in love with love”—but such an attraction is not sustainable over the long run. Paradoxically, human love is sanctified not in the height of attraction and enthusiasm, but in the everyday struggles of living with another person. It is not in romance but in routine that the possibilities for transformation are made manifest. And that requires commitment.
« πλ | 25 May 2006 »
I cried, not because I was hurt but because he was. You *feel* like that when you love someone.
« πλ | 16 Oct 2006 »
I love you, and because I love you, I would sooner have you hate me for telling you the truth than adore me for telling you lies.
« πλ | 2 Jun 2006 »
I have found the paradox that if I love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, but only more love.
« πλ | 26 Apr 2006 »
Even if a unity of faith is not possible, a unity of love is.
« πλ | 19 Apr 2005 »
And think not, you can direct the course of love; for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
« πλ | 30 Apr 2006 »
I could never myself believe in God, if it were not for the cross. The only God I believe in is the one Nietzsche ridiculed as “God on the Cross.” In the real world of pain, how could one worship a God who was immune to it? I have entered many Buddhist temples and stood respectfully before the statue of Buddha, his legs crossed, arms folded, eyes closed, the ghost of a smile playing round his mouth, a remote look on his face, detached from the agonies of the world. But each time after a while I have had to turn away. And in imagination I have turned instead to that lonely, twisted, tortured figure on the cross, nails through hands and feet, back lacerated, limbs wrenched, brow bleeding from thorn-pricks, mouth dry and intolerably thirsty, plunged in God-forsaken darkness. That is the God for me! He laid aside his immunity to pain. He entered our world of flesh and blood, tears and death. He suffered for us.
« πλ | 25 Mar 2005 »
If we will not learn to eat the only fruit the universe can grow—the only fruit any possible universe can grow—we must starve eternally.
« πλ | 19 Jan 2006 »
Indifference to love or hate is sitting on the fence between the two, refusing to engage either one of them. Indifference, if it had its own way, would prefer to step away from the whole struggle between love and hate, to walk away from the only real game in the world and wallow in its own mediocrity.
« πλ | 26 Nov 2004 »
It is by the path of love, which is charity, that God draws near to humans, and humans to God. But where charity is not found, God cannot dwell. If then, we possess charity, we possess God, for “God is charity.”
« πλ | 24 May 2005 »
It is not your job to seek for love. It IS your job to seek within yourself all the barriers against its coming.
« πλ | 9 Apr 2005 »
It is our part to seek,
His to grant what we ask;
ours to make a beginning,
His to bring it to completion;
ours to offer what we can,
His to finish what we cannot.
« πλ | 20 Mar 2005 »
Kindness—mere kindness—cannot tolerate suffering. Love can.
« πλ | 21 Jan 2006 »
If I myself dominate myself, if my thoughts revolve round myself, if I am so occupied with myself I rarely have “a heart at leisure from itself,” then I know nothing of Calvary love.
« πλ | 17 Apr 2004 »
Let God love you through others, and let God love others through you.
« πλ | 29 Oct 2004 »
It is only through letting our heart break that we discover something unexpected: the heart cannot actually break, it can only break open. When we feel both our love for this world and the pain of this world—together, at the same time—the heart breaks out of its shell. To live with an open heart is to experience life full-strength.
« πλ | 6 Dec 2004 »
This is perhaps the greatest moral challenge Jesus left us: We all do pretty well in love when the persons we are loving are warm and gracious, but can we be gracious and mellow in the face of bitterness, jealousy, hatred, withdrawal? That’s the litmus test of love.
« πλ | 17 Jun 2006 »
This is perhaps the greatest moral challenge Jesus left us: We all do pretty well in love when the persons we are loving are warm and gracious, but can we be gracious and mellow in the face of bitterness, jealousy, hatred, withdrawal? That’s the litmus test of love.
« πλ | 17 Jun 2006 »
To love someone is not first of all to do things for them, but to reveal to them their beauty and value, to say to them through our attitude: “You are beautiful. You are important. I trust you. You can trust yourself.” We all know well that we can do things for others and in the process crush them, making them feel that they are incapable of doing things by themselves. To love someone is to reveal to them their capacities for life, the light that is shining in them.
« πλ | 10 May 2004 »
Love and do as you will.
Because you will be following God’s will if it is true, real love.
« πλ | 2 Nov 2005 »
To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will certainly be wrung, possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping your heart, you must give your heart to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it up carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries, avoid all personal entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket of your selfishness. But in that casket—safe, dark, motionless, airless—it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.
« πλ | 27 Apr 2005 »
At sunrise everything is luminous, but not clear. It is often the same with those we live with and love and should know: they elude us. Yet you can love completely without complete understanding.
« πλ | 19 Aug 2004 »
Love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking together in the same direction.
« πλ | 8 Jan 2005 »
Love is a word; what matters is the connection that word implies.
« πλ | 25 Jun 2006 »
Love is an orientation and not a state of the soul. Anyone who does not know this will fall into despair at the first onset of affliction.
« πλ | 10 Dec 2004 »
Love is faith’s flower, hope is its stem. Grace comes into us by faith, like water through the roots of a tree. It rises in us by hope, like sap rising through the trunk of a tree. And it matures in us by [love] as fruit matures on a tree’s branches, fruit for the neighbor’s eating.
« πλ | 3 Mar 2006 »
Now love is like a fishhook. A fisher cannot catch a fish unless the fish first picks up the hook. If the fish swallows the hook, no matter how it may squirm and turn, the fisher is certain of the fish. Love is the same way. Whoever is captured by love takes up this hook in such a fashion that foot and hand, mouth and eyes, heart and all that is in that person must always belong to God.
Therefore, look only for this fishhook, and you will be happily caught. The more you are caught, the more you will be liberated.
« πλ | 24 Nov 2004 »
The Wizard said to the Tin Man, “Remember my friend, love is not measured by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others.”
« πλ | 14 Feb 2003 »
Love is that flame that once kindled burns everything, and only the mystery and the journey remain.
« πλ | 4 Dec 2004 »
All love is expansion, all selfishness is contraction. Love is therefore the only law of life. He who loves lives; he who is selfish is dying. Therefore, love for love’s sake, because it is the law of life, just as you breathe to live.
« πλ | 23 Nov 2004 »
Love is the true means by which the world is enjoyed: our love to others, and others love to us.
« πλ | 23 Jan 2005 »
Love is the most dangerous thing in the world.
“The ultimate risk”, says Peter Kreeft
« πλ | 31 Jan 2006 »
Love life more than the meaning of life, love life in spite of logic.
« πλ | 15 Jan 2006 »
Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.
« πλ | 10 Apr 2005 »
One day, a philosopher asked, “What is the purpose of creation?” “Lovemaking,” said the Master. Later, to his disciples, he said, “Before creation, love was. After creation, love was made. When love is consummated, creation will cease to be, and love will be forever.”
« πλ | 4 Nov 2006 »
May God break my heart so completely that the whole world falls in.
« πλ | 12 Aug 2005 »
There is no effective rational answer to the challenge: “But give me a reason why I should love someone who does not deserve it.” Love is the highest thing. There can be no higher reason to justify it.
« πλ | 4 Mar 2006 »
Remember there’s no such thing as a small act of kindness. Every act creates a ripple with no logical end.
« πλ | 28 Nov 2004 »
Once our hearts get broken, they never fully heal. They always ache. But perhaps a broken heart is a more loving instrument. Perhaps only after our hearts have cracked wide open, have finally and totally unclenched, can we truly know love without boundaries.
« πλ | 22 Jan 2005 »
Love, I thought, is stronger than death or the fear of death. Only by it, by love, life holds together and advances.
« πλ | 20 Oct 2005 »
Prayer and love are learned in the hour when prayer becomes impossible and your heart has turned to stone.
« πλ | 2 Dec 2004 »
Prayer is an act of love, to God, from God, through God. Prayer is an act of love with those for whom we pray.
« πλ | 24 Feb 2005 »
We prepare to die by pushing ourselves to love less narrowly. In that sense, readying ourselves for death is really an ever-widening entry into life.
« πλ | 26 Jul 2006 »
A hug is the shortest distance between friends.
« πλ | 19 Nov 2004 »
So when you sense a change,
Nothing feels the same,
All your dreams are strange,
Love comes walkin’ in.
« πλ | 30 Nov 2004 »
True, we love life, not because we are used to living, but because we are used to loving. There is always some madness in love, but there is also always some reason in madness.
« πλ | 12 Oct 2005 »
To many moderns, [love] is something that is only a part of us rather than something of which we are a part.
« πλ | 28 Feb 2006 »
That your enemies have been created is God’s doing; that they hate you and wish to ruin you is their own doing. What should you say about them in your mind? “Lord be merciful to them, forgive them their sins, put the fear of God in them, change them!” You are loving in them not what they are, but what you would have them to become.
« πλ | 8 Nov 2006 »
Let us remember that the Christmas heart is a giving heart, a wide open heart that thinks of others first. The birth of the baby Jesus stands as the most significant event in all history, because it has meant the pouring into a sick world of the healing medicine of love which has transformed all manner of hearts for almost two thousand years… Underneath all the bulging bundles is this beating Christmas heart.
« πλ | 24 Dec 2005 »
The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
« πλ | 3 Oct 2006 »
In each of our lives, Jesus comes as the bread of life—to be eaten, to be consumed by us. This is how he loves us. Then Jesus comes in our life as the hungry one, the other, hoping to be fed with the bread of our life, our hearts by loving, and our hands by serving. In loving and serving, we prove that we have been created in the likeness of God, for God is love and when we love we are like God. This is what Jesus meant when he said, “Be perfect as your Father in heaven is perfect.”
« πλ | 9 Oct 2006 »
Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition.
And that Love is God…
« πλ | 26 Jun 2006 »
The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others how much they love them while they’re still alive.
« πλ | 9 Jan 2005 »
Henceforth, when we feel the hammers of life beating on our heads or on our hearts, we can know—we must know—that he is here with us, taking our blows. Every tear we shed becomes his tear. He may not yet wipe them away, but he makes them his. Would we rather have our own dry eyes, or his tear-filled ones? He came. He is here. That is the salient fact. If he does not heal all our broken bones and loves and lives now, he comes into them and is broken, like bread, and we are nourished. And he shows us that we can henceforth use our very brokenness as nourishment for those we love. Since we are his body, we too are the bread that is broken for others. Our very failures help heal other lives; our very tears help wipe away tears; our being hated helps those we love. When those we love hang up on us, he keeps the lines open.
« πλ | 30 Mar 2005 »
The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing.
« πλ | 12 Nov 2005 »
Dare to love and to be a real friend. The love you give and receive is a reality that will lead you closer and closer to God as well as those whom God has given you to love.
« πλ | 28 Oct 2004 »
The more we realize we are loved, the more ashamed we are not to love back. The more we sin as a violation of love, not just of law, the more powerful a motive we will have to overcome it. For sin is attractive to us (otherwise we would never be attracted to it) and can be cast out only by something more attractive.
« πλ | 7 Apr 2006 »
It is by the path of love, which is charity, that God draws near to man, and man to God. But where charity is not found, God cannot dwell. If, then, we possess charity, we possess God, for ‘God is Charity’ (1 Jn 4:8).
« πλ | 12 Jan 2004 »
Faith is the root, the necessary beginning. Hope is the stem, the energy that makes the plant grow. Love is the fruit, the flower, the visible product, the bottom line. The plant of our new life in Christ is one; the life of God comes into us by faith, through us by hope, and out of us by the works of love.
« πλ | 20 Sep 2006 »
The proof of love is in the works. Where love exists, it works great things. But when it ceases to act, it ceases to exist.
« πλ | 23 Feb 2006 »
The love of God is no human projection, but the wrath of God is. In fact, what we call the wrath of God is really the love of God experienced by a fool.
« πλ | 18 Jan 2006 »
The three most difficult things for a human being are not physical feats or intellectual achievements. They are, first, returning love for hate; second, including the excluded; third, admitting that you are wrong.
« πλ | 2 Oct 2003 »
Through your embrace you speak a thousand words, without ever saying one.
« πλ | 21 Nov 2004 »
To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.
« πλ | 5 Aug 2005 »
To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will certainly be wrung, possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping your heart , you must give your heart to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it up carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries, avoid all personal entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket of your selfishness. But in that casket—safe, dark, motionless, airless—it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.
« πλ | 16 Apr 2005 »
To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive—to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before.
« πλ | 22 Aug 2004 »
Gabriel Marcel once said: “To love someone is to say, you at least will never die.” That might sound like romantic wishful thinking, but in Christian faith we believe that this is deep insight, an article of faith, a truth of the incarnation. If we take the incarnation seriously, then to love someone is to say to that person: “You will never die because, in this life and the next, you will never be separated from community of life, God’s family, because in accepting my love you are touching the body of Christ just as really as did anyone who touched the historical Jesus. You will never die and you will never go to hell because you are bound to Christ.”
« πλ | 13 May 2005 »
Scripture starts with the particular and then universalizes it. You are called to love your concrete individual neighbor and then to realize that every individual is your neighbor. The point is not to destroy concrete neighborhood in a fit of universalism but to expand the local neighborhood and embrace the universal neighborhood.
« πλ | 20 Mar 2006 »
To love someone is to show them their beauty, their worth, and their importance.
« πλ | 24 Apr 2005 »
True love, unlike popular sentimental substitutes, is willing to suffer. Love is not “luv.” Love is the cross. Our problem at first, the sheer problem of suffering, was a cross without Christ. We must never fall into the opposite and equal trap of a Christ without a cross.
« πλ | 25 Jan 2006 »
True love loves you right where you are, and also loves you enough not to leave you stuck there.
« πλ | 24 Oct 2005 »
The key to faith is love. We believe only if we love. Trust is the middle term; only if we love, do we trust; and only if we trust, do we believe.
« πλ | 2 Mar 2006 »
John Powell, in his book, “Unconditional Love”, tells the story of a young student who was dying of cancer. In the final stages of his illness, he came to see Powell and said something to this effect: “Father, you once told us something in class that has made it easier for me to die young. You said: ‘There are only two potential tragedies in life, and dying young isn’t one of them. These are the two tragedies: If you go through life and don’t love and if you go through life and you don’t tell those whom you love that you love them.’”
« πλ | 25 Jul 2006 »
We may give without loving, but we cannot love without giving.
Reminds me of this quote.
« πλ | 9 Nov 2003 »
In the evening of our life, we shall be judged by love, namely, by the sincerity of our love for God, for our neighbor, for our soul.
« πλ | 29 Jul 2004 »
We take ourselves as we are, and we take our brother as he is. Together with him we take a stand for love. And all the evidence to the contrary not withstanding: love is all that matters. It is only love that makes of Desolation Row a Glory Road. And Love is already there, because that is where He lives.
« πλ | 17 Jul 2005 »
We who run in the way of Love must never torment ourselves about anything. If I did not suffer minute by minute, it would be impossible for me to be patient; but I see only the present moment, I forget the past, and take good care not to anticipate the future. If we grow disheartened, if sometimes we despair, it is because we have been dwelling on the past or the future.
« πλ | 27 Dec 2004 »
What I feel like is out of my hands, and I can’t be responsible for that; what I choose is where morality starts, and this is the true testing ground of good and bad.
« πλ | 23 Oct 2004 »
What we do (or don’t do) doesn’t tell us how much God is going to love us, it tells us how much we love Him.
« πλ | 15 Jan 2005 »
Love is the fulfillment of the law and should be everyone’s rule of life; in the end it’s the solution to every problem, the motive for all good. “Love and do as you will.” This is the crux. When I love I can no longer do as I will.
« πλ | 3 Nov 2005 »
When we can see the image of God where we don’t want to see the image of God, then we see with eyes not our own.
« πλ | 8 May 2005 »
To love means never to be afraid of the windstorms of life: should you shield the canyons from the windstorms you would never see the true beauty of their carvings.
— Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
« πλ | 26 Jan 2005 »
God is love. Wraith is how His love appears to us when we sin or rebel or run away from Him. The very light that is meant to help us appears to us as our enemy when we seek the darkness.
« πλ | 15 Mar 2006 »
Your persistent longing is your persistent voice. But when love grows cold, the heart grows silent. Burning love is the outcry of the heart! If you are filled with longing all the time, you will keep crying out, and if your love perseveres, your cry will be heard without fail.
« πλ | 10 May 2005 »